Grief becomes especially heavy when it stems from multiple losses—it’s known as compounded grief. This type of grief can feel overwhelming, even paralyzing, making it difficult to fully process and heal. While all grief is painful, compounded grief poses a greater risk to your mental health. Many people find it nearly impossible to manage on their own. Working with a mental health professional can provide the support and guidance you need to begin healing and reclaim a sense of peace. Let’s explore how compounded grief affects your health—and what you can do to begin moving forward.
What Is Compounded Grief?
Compounded grief—also called cumulative grief—is the deep, intense sorrow that arises when someone experiences multiple losses in a short period of time. These losses don’t always have to be deaths; they can include the end of relationships, major life changes, or secondary losses tied to a primary event.
For example, a parent who loses a child may also lose their relationship with their partner, struggle with finances, and grieve the loss of their identity or future plans. In another instance, someone who loses multiple family members due to a tragedy or in close succession may find themselves caught in an emotional spiral with little time to recover between each blow.
Because compounded grief builds quickly and powerfully, it often disrupts the natural healing process and leaves people feeling emotionally stuck.
Compounded Grief vs Normal Grief
Grieving a single loss is already a profound challenge. In most cases, grief follows a general progression—shock, pain, adjustment, and eventually, some level of acceptance. With compounded grief, however, that process becomes disrupted. The pain from one loss may not have been fully acknowledged or processed before another occurs, making it difficult—if not impossible—to move forward.
In some cases, multiple losses may happen simultaneously, intensifying the emotional overload. The result? A delayed or blocked healing process that feels impossible to navigate alone.
What Are the Signs and Symptoms of Grief?
Grief is an intensely personal experience. The symptoms you—or someone you care about—experience may vary in timing, severity, and type. Some signs appear immediately after a loss, while others emerge later. Whether your grief is recent or longstanding, it’s crucial to be gentle with yourself. All emotions are valid during mourning, and allowing yourself to feel them is part of healing.
That said, if your grief feels too heavy to manage—or if you feel numb and disconnected—it may be time to seek professional support. Therapy can help you access and work through emotions you may not be able to face on your own.
Physical Symptoms of Grief
Grief often appears as bodily sensations, making grief a whole-body experience. It’s one of the reasons grief feels so painful. You may experience any or all of these physical symptoms of grief:
- Increased heart rate
- Arrhythmia (irregular heart rate)
- High blood pressure
- Nausea
- Dizziness
- Aches and pains
- Chest pain
- Loss of appetite
- Restlessness
- Difficulty breathing
- Panic attacks
Mental Symptoms of Grief
Undeniably, grief takes a toll on your mental health. The major act of processing through your loss and the effects it will have is enough of a challenge. However, mental illness symptoms can also set in, especially if you have a mental disorder. Here are some of the mental impacts grief can have on you:
- Disbelief
- Confusion
- Flashbacks
- Difficulty concentrating
- Hallucinations
- Sensory overload
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Anhedonia (loss of pleasure)
Emotional Symptoms of Grief
Grief is itself an emotion. While you are in the midst of grief, you will likely cycle through many different feelings. It can be destabilizing to have your emotions all over the place, but this is normal. If you want to talk to someone about your racing emotions, grief counseling will help.
You may experience any of these emotions, or other ones:
- Sadness
- Shock
- Numbness
- Longing
- Hopelessness
- Despair
- Anger
- Shame
- Guilt
- Fear
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How Does Grief Affect Mental Health?
Without a doubt, grief has an impact on your mental health. You’re facing many emotions while dealing with physical pain sensations while also grappling with the reality in your mind. Grief, including compounded grief, can lead to the development of mental health symptoms, like depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). It’s possible you will face challenges that come with mental health disorders. These may include identity disruption, trouble participating in regular life, loneliness and isolation, and avoidant behaviors. Notably, prolonged grief disorder is a condition where you struggle to heal from your grief and still battle symptoms a year or more later. It is more likely to stem from compounded grief.
And if you have a pre-existing mental health challenge, your mental health symptoms can be severe when dealing with loss. Fortunately, professional help for grief exists.
The Importance of Professional Help for Compound Grief
It is necessary to invite professional assistance into your grief when dealing with intense losses. No one can handle the complexities of severe pain on their own. Markedly, needing help to heal from your pain does not make you weak. Instead, it will help you leave the cycle of grief and experience a fulfilling life. Having faced compounded grief, your losses should be treated like trauma, especially if you were involved in a traumatic situation. At Vogue Recovery, we provide trauma-informed care for compounded grief. Our programming helps you find recovery for your whole being, including your mind, body, and spirit so you feel like yourself again.
How Long Does Grief Last?
There is no exact timeline for grief, as each person processes and heals at their own pace. However, grief that remains intense and life-altering for longer than six months to a year after loss indicates difficulty healing. Typically, the expected timeline for the most painful grief symptoms to pass is around the six-month mark. If your grief is lasting, you may be struggling with prolonged grief disorder. Professional grief counseling will help you find peace and relief from pain.
Stages of Grief
It is widely accepted that there are five stages of grief, as first noted by psychiatrist Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in the 1960s. Of course, grief is not a neat and orderly process, and it’s not useful to try to put your feelings into a box. However, grief does often follow a similar pattern. It can be helpful to understand that what you’re going through is normal and healthy. You may move through the five stages of grief linearly or in a different order.
Denial: You want to deny the reality of your losses because you are still stuck in shock mode. It can take time to wrap your head around your situation because once you do, you’ll have to face it.
Anger: You feel angry that your loved ones are no longer with you. Anger is a healthy emotion and can give a sense of something you can control in the midst of an unfathomable loss.
Bargaining: You start to bargain with anyone you perceive to have some power in the situation. Thus, you may bargain with doctors, police, God, or yourself. Bargaining is a stage of starting to face the reality but wanting to still change it.
Depression: The reality of the loss sets in and you grapple with living the rest of your life without the ones you’ve lost. Grief can exist as feelings of sadness, hopelessness, emptiness, and fatigue. It can be challenging to break out of this stage of grief.
Acceptance: You accept your loved ones are gone and work daily to live life at peace with that truth. Notably, you will continue to mourn and feel the loss of your loved ones. But acceptance is a healthy level of healing in the midst of extreme pain.
It is healthy to go through the stages of grief, but it’s certainly not easy. You do not have to work through your grief and loss alone. Mental health treatment can provide you with support and safety during your bereavement.
Mental Health Treatment for Compounded Grief
Grief is a natural response to loss that you need to experience in order to heal. If you’re struggling to move forward, it’s time to invite a grief counselor into your pain. Through conversation and whole-body healing activities, you can begin to release the binds of grief that are holding you down. We offer a comprehensive mix of traditional and holistic therapies for grief.
Evidence-Based Psychotherapy for Compounded Grief
Psychotherapy is an evidence-based healing practice that uses behavioral talk therapies to bring healing into painful places. There are many conditions that benefit from psychotherapy, including mental health disorders and compounded grief. No matter what symptoms you’ve been experiencing, grief psychotherapy allows you to unpack the roots of your complicated grief.
Holistic Treatment for Compounded Grief
Holistic therapy refers to alternative treatments that engage the entire person. They are called holistic because they bring restoration to the mind, body, and spirit. When you’re struggling with overwhelming grief, all parts of your being are unwell. Thus, you need to focus on healing more than your mental health. Through our wide offering of holistic therapies, you will be able to treat your body and sense of self, too.
Where to Find Professional Treatment for Grief
If living with compounded grief is a daily challenge, we invite you to allow our empathetic professional grief counselors into the process. You don’t need to stay trapped in feelings of intense pain or deep emptiness. Although you will always feel the loss of your loved ones, you need to allow yourself to continue living. We would love to help you find the fullness of life again with a healthy body, mind, and spirit. Finding a professional to walk you out of grief is simple if you look to Vogue Recovery. We are waiting for your call!
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